Last Friday, otherwise known as Black Friday, was a bit ho-hum for me. The news just announced that 3.8% more people hit the stores, but that sales were down by 1.8%. I’m not surprised. I thought the stuff on offer mostly sucked. Before I left to see what was to be had, I searched the sales papers like everyone else. I marked a few things down and then headed out not at the ungodly crack of dawn, but at a more reasonable mid-morning start.
This is the first Black Friday where I went looking for mostly deals on things for the home as well as a hopefully good Christmas present or two. But truthfully, I haven’t shopped Black Friday purely for Christmas presents in a long, long time. Why? There just doesn’t seem to be much value in it for a budget glam girl. I guess to me, it seems as though you either need to roll in cash to take advantage of the electronics on sale, or aim for a much more modest list of possible deals for the home and *maybe* you’ll find something nice for someone in the process. I went in search of sheet sets at a good price, and I didn’t really find any that fit my bill. Maybe I’m too picky. I did come away with a wonderful red quilt at a steep discount, given that one of my quilts is in tatters at this point. A couple of clothing items, dog doodads and beauty supplies later, and I was done. Just like that. There are a few reasons for my shopping malaise.
First, I make a list pretty early about what I am buying for other people. I may not put “Betsydoodle Art Kit” down for little Susie, but I will put “art supplies” or some category like that and then I look for deals. I try to figure out what I can make (like fudge!) to help pad the Christmas giving each year. So, when I go to the mall or other stores, I’m looking for some very specific categories. I will browse the rest of the store, but I get overwhelmed pretty easily. Having a list for family members helps keep me from just grabbing a sweater here, a piece of jewelry there and calling it done. I try to put some thought into my giving and I find it helps my budget. This year, very few things in any of my categories were on sale.
Also again, just like decluttering helped with my closet, decluttering the home helped me know what I really needed. Do I want one more fluffy and comforting throw? YES. Do I need them? No. But I do need a quilt and after 7 years, I can give myself permission to buy one! So my home categories were pretty slim. I needed a coffee maker, a quilt and a sheet set as well as a good, safe space heater for downstairs. I *wanted* a fire pit for the yard. My sister asked to get me the coffee pot (getting stuff for me has been trickier since I decluttered and do a lot more with fewer things), I did find my quilt, but the sheet sets were disappointing. I got the heater and it’s wonderful, and the fire pit was 50% off, so I’m picking that up today. Getting things for other people is trickier. If most other people’s homes are any indication, they don’t really need one more set of dishes or towels or fluffy throws. They especially don’t need (in most situations, at least) any stupid coffee machines or other devices that lock them into buying *other* products just to use them. So finding stuff for others in the home area was difficult.
I don’t think there were as many things on sale this time around as in years past. This is all anecdotal, of course, but many of my friends were commenting that they, too, were unmoved by the sales papers. Couple this with the fact that I find many things made today to be either unflattering, cheaply made or otherwise a piece of junk, and you have a recipe for Black Friday let down. I find many of the clothes to be too bizarre, made out of poor fabrics and poorly sewn, though the prices have climbed higher and higher. The trends are a bit bizarre for my tastes and the color schemes I find a bit garish. Maybe I just need to get my eyes checked…
It could be too, though, that some stores are just saving it for later. The aforementioned art kits I noticed are suddenly on sale this week at a screaming deal (some as low as $5). So, maybe there is more to come! Maybe I just have no idea how to find a bargain.